People who like us will accept us the way we are, so why must we go out of our way to be goody-goody?
In trying to please others, we are too obssessed with comparing ourselves to others.
Whenever we try to compare ourselves to others, a strange feeling comes over us making us feel superior or inferior as the case may be..
We are not ready to admit that we lack something and we try to cover that up with silence or may sometimes go secretedly to a library to understand that knowledge of know-how or simply we may drown ourselves in self pity when we feel that we never had opportunity to learn and the circumstance were not in our favor.
On the other hand, when we feel superior and think that we are more intelligent than our friends, we start wearing the cap of attitude and we close our mind to further learning....
In both counts we are pretending to be what we are not.
Dal Divas Potluck - There was rice, bread, papad, achaar and then there were dhals..a great variety of dhal from different parts of India. All dhals were carefully cooked with...